{"id":352,"date":"2019-05-28T04:34:19","date_gmt":"2019-05-28T03:34:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/?p=352"},"modified":"2019-05-28T04:37:49","modified_gmt":"2019-05-28T03:37:49","slug":"review-sach-khi-hoi-tho-hoa-thinh-khong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/index.php\/2019\/05\/28\/review-sach-khi-hoi-tho-hoa-thinh-khong\/","title":{"rendered":"Khi h\u01a1i th\u1edf ho\u00e1 thinh kh\u00f4ng"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>1. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u01b0 c\u1ea5u ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 \u0110i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi (\u0110HG) hay quy\u1ec3n Khi h\u01a1i th\u1edf ho\u00e1 thinh kh\u00f4ng n\u00e0y. B\u1edfi t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5, ch\u1ebft ch\u00f3c, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0 c\u1ea5u th\u00ec s\u1ebd tr\u1ea7n tr\u1ee5i, s\u1ebd th\u1eadt qu\u00e1, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp thu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<br>Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1<br>h\u1eefu h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111i th\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ed1m, hay \u0111i \u0111\u00e1m hi\u1ebfu, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i m\u1edbi bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng, h\u00f3a ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac mong manh \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea5y, r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u1ea3 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u01a1i th\u1edf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2. L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u00ec Paul vi\u1ebft khi bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng, m\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c trong vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1m ch\u1eefa b\u1ec7nh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Paul c\u00f3 nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c khi 1 b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n, nh\u01b0ng h\u00f3a ra l\u1ea1i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ea9y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft. V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt \u1ea5y, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt c\u1ee7a n\u1ec1n y h\u1ecdc \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u01a1i b\u00e0y. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng bi k\u1ecbch m\u00e0 b\u00e1c s\u0129 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng. H\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u00e1u l\u1ea1nh, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c, h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c v\u00e0 tha ho\u00e1. N\u00ean ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c, m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c, s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc g\u1eady th\u0103ng b\u1eb1ng v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p trong m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p nh\u01b0 \u0111i tr\u00ean d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3. V\u00e0 c\u0169ng v\u00ec v\u1eeba l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129, v\u1eeba l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n, n\u00ean Paul s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft trong m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng bi k\u1ecbch h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t &#8220;l\u1eddi n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p&#8221; n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a an \u1ee7i v\u00e0 v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3, anh s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c di\u1ec7n nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kho\u00e1c b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u1ea3o \u1ea3nh n\u00e0o. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i Paul vi\u1ebft cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch trong m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, b\u1edfi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n \u0111i t\u1edbi c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. Nh\u01b0ng trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u1eadt th\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t \u1ea5y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e1m v\u00edu v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>4. T\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd, t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u1edfng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i tr\u0103n tr\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111ang mang tr\u00ean m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y th\u1eadp t\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a bi k\u1ecbch r\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0ng h\u00f3a ra \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t 10 n\u0103m, 20, 30 ho\u1eb7c l\u00e2u h\u01a1n th\u1ebf, c\u00f3 khi l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi d\u00e0i d\u1eb1ng d\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u00ecm l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng cho m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng Paul b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea9y v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t qu\u1ef9 th\u1eddi gian h\u1eefu h\u1ea1n l\u00e0 5 n\u0103m tr\u00ean l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 khi ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi m\u1edbi t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, th\u00ec Paul ph\u1ea3i nhanh ch\u00f3ng t\u00ecm ra c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t, b\u1edfi anh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sai v\u00e0 th\u1eed l\u1ea1i: anh s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 n\u1ed9i tr\u00fa, hay m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 v\u0103n, hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 x\u00f3t xa v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9 khi \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111o\u1ea1n, anh kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, anh c\u1ee9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 lao v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh b\u00e1c s\u0129 n\u1ed9i tr\u00fa l\u00e0m g\u00ec, khi anh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111au v\u00e0 ng\u1ea5t ngay sau khi anh m\u1ed5 cho b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n? T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed5i, t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng tham v\u1ecdng \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u00e3i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn d\u00f2ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, t\u00f4i m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u ra, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea5y, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c n\u1eb1m ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i v\u00e0 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch &#8221; s\u1ed1ng nhanh&#8221; h\u01a1n nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, Paul \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 trong \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh trong v\u00f2ng ba n\u0103m. Anh ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 l\u00e0 b\u00e1c s\u0129 n\u1ed9i tr\u00fa, anh d\u00f9ng h\u1ebft t\u00e2m s\u1ee9c v\u00e0o vi\u1ebft quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng anh c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Candy. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4m con trong l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh, l\u00fac \u1ea5y anh c\u1ea3m m\u1edbi c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y &#8220;t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi \u0111au kh\u1ed5 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng l\u00e0 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng&#8221;. C\u00f2n t\u00f4i th\u00ec nh\u1eadn ra: khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd b\u1edbt s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>5. Con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft, v\u1edbi ai v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta bu\u1ed9c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00f3 trong c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi ai. Paul l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129, v\u1ee3 anh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129, anh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p kh\u00e1m v\u00e0 ch\u1eefa b\u1ec7nh cho. H\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1edbi c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh c\u1eadn t\u1eed, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ra, v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t cho nhau. C\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n \u0111eo \u0111u\u1ed5i v\u00e0 b\u00e1m di\u1ebft anh, nh\u01b0ng trong ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y anh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n, bu\u1ed3n nh\u01b0ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>6. Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u sao t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 \u0110inh V\u0169 Ho\u00e0ng Nguy\u00ean c\u1ee7a C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ed1 v\u1eeba \u0111i qua ph\u1ed1, m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 c\u0169ng ch\u1ebft v\u00ec ung th\u01b0, v\u00e0 sau khi m\u1ea5t m\u1edbi c\u00f3 s\u00e1ch. \u0110\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch anh, m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i \u1edf g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 anh, th\u1eb1ng con anh g\u1eedi chung m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o v\u1edbi th\u1eb1ng con t\u00f4i, chi\u1ec1u v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 \u0111i \u0111\u00f3n n\u00f3, th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 ngh\u1ecbch nh\u01b0 gi\u1eb7c. V\u00e0 c\u00e2u th\u01a1 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng anh vi\u1ebft v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y anh \u0111i l\u00e0:<br>Anh ra \u0111i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y m\u01b0a b\u00e3o<br>V\u1eabn bi\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u1eabn m\u00e1t nh\u01b0 em<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Author: L\u00ea Th\u1ecb Thanh Loan<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. 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