1:09 s\u00e1ng, ng\u00e0y 12 th\u00e1ng 5<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e3 kh\u00e1 khuya r\u1ed3i. M\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i ng\u1ee7 s\u1edbm, n\u00ean ng\u1ed3i vi\u1ebft v\u00e0i d\u00f2ng khi \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
M\u00ecnh ch\u1ee3t ngh\u0129: \u201c\u00c0\u2026 h\u00f3a ra m\u00ecnh \u0111ang h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.\u201d \u00dd ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y kh\u00e1 th\u00fa v\u1ecb.<\/p>\n
Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f4i khi r\u1ea5t l\u1ea1. Khi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau, ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ebfm khi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c. Nh\u01b0ng khi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ebfn, m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn lo l\u1eafng. Li\u1ec7u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n
R\u1ed3i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh s\u1ee3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, s\u1ee3 c\u1ea3 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. M\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau ai th\u00eam l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n
D\u00f9 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau hay h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea3i qua c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i \u0111au th\u00eam m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u00e0o n\u1eefa. V\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u00ecnh n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau th\u00eam ai, v\u00ec s\u1ee3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111au l\u00f2ng s\u1ebd quay l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
D\u00f9 sao th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u1eabn r\u1ea5t h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. M\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng ti\u1ec1n cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho ai n\u1eefa. M\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
1:09 a.m., May 12<\/p>\n
It\u2019s a little late. I just don\u2019t want to go to bed early, so I\u2019m writing this post with some feelings that come when I\u2019m alone.<\/p>\n
I suddenly thought, \u201cOh, I\u2019m dating myself.\u201d That idea made me feel strangely interested.<\/p>\n
People are sometimes very strange. When we try to find someone to love, we rarely think about the pain that may come along the way.<\/p>\n
We just try to find someone who makes us want to care for them. But when those feelings come, we still worry. Is it really okay?<\/p>\n
So we move on, still single in our own world. Maybe more than one unhappy marriage has made me afraid of love and marriage itself. It feels like I don\u2019t want to fall in love again with anyone.<\/p>\n
Whether it is marriage or just love, we don\u2019t want to experience the same pain again. So we avoid falling in love because of the painful feelings that may come with it.<\/p>\n
Anyway, single life still attracts me a lot because of its freedom and convenience. I can spend money on myself and don\u2019t need to take care of anyone anymore. I just want to take care of my own life with all of my energy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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