C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169. R\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng r\u1eddi \u0111i d\u00f9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i sau khi r\u1eddi \u0111i \u0111\u00f3.
\nNg\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 do m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u1eefa n\u00ean r\u1eddi \u0111i, ch\u1ee9 ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129.
\nNg\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, \u1eeb, ch\u1eef th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i r\u1ed3i v\u00ec b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u01a1ng.
\nB\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh gi\u1ecfi l\u1eafm, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y x\u00e2y m\u1ea5y c\u00e1i nh\u00e0, t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng v\u1eeba l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1eeba nu\u00f4i con r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3. M\u00ecnh nh\u00ecn b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn n\u1ed7i v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 \u1ea5y.
\nCu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1ed1n d\u0129 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 v\u1ea1ch ra cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nhau th\u00ec h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng l\u1eafm. M\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n v\u1eady v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m v\u1eady, v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ra sao th\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m. <\/p>\n
C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4 c\u1eb1n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00ed l\u1ebd trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 v\u1eady. M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ecfi giang l\u1ea1i y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i v\u00e0 t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh \u0111au \u0111\u1ebfn ngh\u1eb9t th\u1edf. D\u1eabu v\u1eady m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n xin l\u1ed7i b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh v\u00ec n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh t\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00e1y l\u00f2ng, m\u00ecnh mong r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u00ec m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng mong m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh th\u00f4i, v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m, m\u00ecnh mong v\u1eady l\u00e0m sao.<\/p>\n
M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tin c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, t\u1eebng tin r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u00f3 m\u00ecnh vi\u1ebft trong cu\u1ed1n ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft 2 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc – M\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eefng ch\u00e3i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng m\u00ea h\u01b0 vinh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tham v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1eb9. M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng v\u00ec nh\u1eefng hi sinh t\u1ea7n t\u1ea3o v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t sinh linh bi\u1ebft \u0111i, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i…k\u00ec di\u1ec7u thay…M\u00ecnh qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0…l\u00e0m m\u1eb9. <\/p>\n
H\u1ed3i c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 con m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 nu\u00f4i con \u0111\u1ec3 con th\u1eadt gi\u1ecfi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed7 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Harvard, r\u1ed3i d\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng h\u1ecdc c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con ki\u1ec7t xu\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c…m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. V\u1eady m\u00e0, l\u1edbn l\u00ean, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c \u0111i nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1. M\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u1eadt k\u00ec l\u1ea1, n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi c\u1ea7m m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y b\u00fat, v\u1ee5t xu\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e1m m\u00e2y, ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y ch\u1ed7 kia v\u00e0 \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi b\u1ea3o m\u00e2y ph\u1ea3i m\u01b0a l\u00e0 s\u1ebd m\u01b0a, c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec tan ra kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u v\u1ec7t. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ea5y, co n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c thi v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u1eady th\u00f4i. <\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n \u1edf v\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea5t mi\u1ec1n T\u00e2y n\u00e0y cho m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 n\u1ed7i ni\u1ec1m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con xa gia \u0111\u00ecnh, cho m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n s\u00e2u s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf g\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u00fd. \u1ede C\u1ea7n Th\u01a1, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn sau nh\u01b0ng gi\u1edd ph\u00fat \u1ea3o m\u1ed9ng, \u1edf C\u1ea7n Th\u01a1 m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc tr\u00e1i tim nh\u01b0 rung l\u00ean v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi b\u1ed9c b\u1ea1ch v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra ng\u00e2y d\u1ea1i. \u1ede C\u1ea7n Th\u01a1, m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1c c\u00f4 c\u00e2u h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2, c\u00f3 th\u00f4ng minh, c\u00f3 kh\u1edd d\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 kh\u00e1t khao, c\u00f3 dang d\u1edf…\u1ede C\u1ea7n Th\u01a1, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh ngay tr\u00ean ch\u00ednh qu\u1ed1c gia d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c m\u00ecnh. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u1eeba nh\u1ed9n nh\u1ecbp, v\u1eeba thanh b\u00ecnh, v\u1eeba \u0111\u00f4 th\u1ecb c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t th\u00f4n qu\u00ea, n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 y\u00eau, m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 c\u1ea3m m\u1ebfn, m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 gi\u1eadn, m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng…M\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t. <\/p>\n
M\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a \u0111i \u0111\u1ee7 nhi\u1ec1u, ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb1m m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u00ecnh th\u1eddi x\u01b0a, m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 \u0111i r\u1ea5t \u00edt, r\u1ea5t \u00edt th\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng sau c\u00f9ng, m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y th\u01b0\u01a1ng CT, d\u00f9 CT \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ph\u1ee5c, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh y\u00eau gh\u00e9t c\u00e1i n\u1eafng, c\u00e1i m\u01b0a,….nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 n\u00e0y, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u01a1ng.
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There was once when I talked with a friend about an old story \u2014 about how I had once chosen to leave even though I still loved someone, and yet somehow, after leaving, I was also the one left behind.<\/p>\n
My friend told me that perhaps it was not as I thought. She said maybe I had left because I no longer loved that person anymore. Her words helped me understand myself more deeply. Yes, perhaps the love had already faded away because, in truth, I was no longer being loved in return.<\/p>\n
My friend is remarkable. She builds houses, does so many things on her own, works while raising her child through countless hardships. When I look at her, I quietly feel the weight of all those struggles.<\/p>\n
Life itself does not contain that many tragedies if we can draw clear plans for ourselves \u2014 knowing what we want and what we are willing to do. As long as our desires and our actions can meet each other, perhaps life will feel balanced. I want something, and I act for it. Whatever the result may be, at least I have faced it with all my courage.<\/p>\n
There are many events in life that can dry out a person\u2019s soul, and there are also many reasons that can make a person more dreamy and romantic. Perhaps that is simply how life is. I never thought that my friend \u2014 such a capable and admirable person \u2014 could also be so fragile and ordinary in some ways, and that realization hurt me until I could barely breathe. Even so, I still want to apologize to her for the things I said that made her angry to the core. I hope she will not dwell on it, because I am deeply afraid of making her sad. And perhaps I only misunderstood her after all. I truly hope that I did.<\/p>\n
I once believed that somewhere there existed a perfect person. Two years ago, I even wrote such a character into a novel \u2014 \u201cA Perfect Human.\u201d That person was strong and steady. That person was not seduced by vanity or material things. That person was a Mother. I believed that mothers must be incredibly beautiful \u2014 beautiful because of their unconditional sacrifices and tireless devotion, beautiful because they bring a living soul into the world, a child who learns to walk, to stand, to speak\u2026 how miraculous that is. I truly admire women who become mothers.<\/p>\n
When I was younger, I used to think that if I had children, I would stop working and dedicate myself entirely to raising them well, helping them become exceptional enough to enter Harvard University, earning scholarships and studying alongside other brilliant children. I imagined that I would walk beside my child through all those dreams. But growing up, everything turned out so differently.<\/p>\n
Life feels strange. It is as though God holds a pen and sweeps it across the clouds, pointing here and there. Wherever He says it must rain, the clouds will rain. Otherwise, they simply dissolve without leaving a trace. Life is like that. Human beings can only follow along and accept it.<\/p>\n
The lonely days in this western land have allowed me to feel most clearly the heart of someone living far away from family. They have made me feel the deep presence of time and the preciousness of moments spent near the people I love.<\/p>\n
In Can Tho, I experienced unbearable pain after moments of illusion and fantasy. Yet in Can Tho, I was also incredibly happy during those moments when my heart trembled from hearing someone\u2019s honest confession and from speaking my own innocent feelings aloud. In Can Tho, I watched my students \u2014 some intelligent, some naive, some full of longing, some unfinished in their dreams. In Can Tho, I understood most deeply what it means to live alone, even within my own homeland.<\/p>\n
Life here is both bustling and peaceful, both urban and deeply rural. It leaves me vaguely in love, vaguely attached, vaguely angry, vaguely affectionate\u2026 but perhaps affection is the strongest feeling of all.<\/p>\n
I have not traveled enough, nor experienced enough to immerse myself in life the way my elders and my father once did. I have only gone a very short distance in this world. But in the end, I realize that I truly care for CT. Even though this city has made me admire, appreciate, and both love and resent its sunshine and rain\u2026 when it comes to describing my feelings for this place, the truest word is this: affection. A deep and genuine affection.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169. R\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng r\u1eddi \u0111i d\u00f9 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5249,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[827,830,829,828],"class_list":["post-5252","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blogs","tag-can-tho","tag-mien-tay","tag-pho","tag-thanh-pho"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5252","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5252"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5252\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5255,"href":"https:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5252\/revisions\/5255"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5249"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5252"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5252"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5252"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}