{"id":913,"date":"2021-01-29T11:49:49","date_gmt":"2021-01-29T11:49:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/?p=913"},"modified":"2021-01-31T03:03:26","modified_gmt":"2021-01-31T03:03:26","slug":"khi-cam-xuc-cua-nguoi-khac-anh-huong-len-ban","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cafe2sach.com\/index.php\/2021\/01\/29\/khi-cam-xuc-cua-nguoi-khac-anh-huong-len-ban\/","title":{"rendered":"Khi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00ean b\u1ea1n"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

NH\u1eeeNG NG\u01af\u1edcI C\u00c0NG MU\u1ed0N CHI\u1ec0U L\u00d2NG NG\u01af\u1edcI KH\u00c1C C\u00c0NG S\u1ed0NG KH\u00d4NG THO\u1ea2I M\u00c1I<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ea1n. B\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i chi\u1ec1u l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fat t\u1ef1 do, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/li>
  2. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, s\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh bu\u1ed3n, s\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n trai m\u00ecnh gi\u1eadn. C\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra sao b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ng\u01b0ng s\u1ed1ng theo c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/li>
  3. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac chi ph\u1ed1i, t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn b\u1ea1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n li\u1ec1n suy ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh ch\u1ea3 c\u00f3 t\u00edch s\u1ef1 g\u00ec sao? B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, t\u1ef1 tin v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh th\u00ec m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    4.Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1ed7 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u00e0 qua \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u1eefng g\u00ec?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    1. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i, m\u1ecdi l\u00fac \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng trong c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1edfi l\u1ebd c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m h\u01a1n l\u00e0 y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng th\u1ee9 \u0111ang chi\u1ebfm l\u1ea5y h\u1ecd h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng theo c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/li>
    2. B\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh n\u00ean c\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t, l\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng, l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u1ec9 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi them m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng sau n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea3 c\u00f3 ch\u00fat tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i.<\/li>
    3. C\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t \u00e1p l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e8 n\u1eb7ng l\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. \u00c1p l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f3c th\u00f4i. Nh\u1eefng ai kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ea1o ra th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. H\u1ecd nh\u00ecn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u00e1p l\u1ef1c n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra.<\/li>
    4. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i th\u00edch b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua “g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m”: ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i th\u00edch b\u1ea1n, mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00edch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c.<\/li>
    5. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd, \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 r\u1ea3nh m\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng theo t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng theo c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec h\u01a1n. S\u1ed1ng theo c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00e1i sau n\u00e0y nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/li>
    6. Ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi, \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u00fat thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i.<\/li>
    7. Th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt m\u00e0 h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn 360 \u0111\u1ed9 v\u1eady? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i l\u1eddi th\u1ea3n nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 trong l\u00f2ng l\u00e2u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>
    8. \u201c\u0110\u1eebng s\u1ed1ng theo c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d, \u0111\u1eebng coi m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i h\u00f4 kh\u1ea9u hi\u1ec7u n\u00f3i th\u00ec d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m th\u00ec kh\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. (*)<\/li>
    9. T\u1ed9i g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ef1 \u201ckh\u1ea9u x\u00e0 t\u00e2m Ph\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? T\u1ed9i g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng theo nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n mong manh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n thong dong tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi s\u1ed1ng theo c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. (*)<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

      (*): Tr\u00edch \u201cKhi b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba b\u1eadn v\u1eeba \u0111\u1eb9p c\u00f2n s\u1ee3 chi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5t\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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